This is reposted from another blog and was written a long time ago around 2006. It was written way back before I started travelling and spent most of my time working online at home and my whole life revolved around the internet and walking my dog. In fact, I didn't even own a car back then. This post centers around this one particularly judgmental woman.
It looks like she's started her own blog although it's more of an article website and the message board is at a different domain(it is no longer active and has been abandoned). The website looks pretty good and I will write more about it on my new life blog and put a link probably in a different post when I get it up. This post focuses on what I wrote many years ago and my opinions of this person. BTW, the discussion board is now at singleness.net not singleness.org.
Here comes my next installment so to speak of my blog posting. I decided even though there are a couple of other things I want to discuss I'm going to discuss this woman next.
Many probably know her best from purposeful singleness. She has written many articles. Not necessarily bad articles and if people get inspiration from them then more power to these people. I hope they help.
My major gripe about this woman is her attitude. A few years back I had several run ins with her when I was posting on the singleness.org website. My main complaint is if you don't wholeheartedly agree with everything she says she will openly chastise you, call you a nonchristian and delete your account. If you dare disagree with her she hands down a heavy laden hand of your needed repentance as if she has total access to your heart, mind and soul and she doesn't mind being your judge, jury and executioner. If you don't come back and apologize for whatever statement you made that she disagrees with then she will most definitely chide you and try to whip you into submission.
The rules are very simple, you agree with her, back her up regardless if you don't agree because in her mind she is always right. You must bow down to her.
She censors everything you say and if it doesn't conform to her way of thinking on every platform you can find yourself another message board.
Granted I can see her need to censor some things but censoring people's opinions is just plain downright wrong. This is a country of free speech but not in the christian community. You either roll over and play along with whatever scheme/message they are trying to purport or you're finding yourself being shunned from every aspect of the community and this goes not just for online but offline as well.
It may be her website but no one should be allowed to censor or control another. And with Fern Horst it is all about control.
She is a single woman and I'm not trying to offend her but this is the very reason she does not have a husband. She is controlling, more likely than not, manipulative. Control usually piggybacks off manipulation. Of course she would be the first one to chastise any person for resorting to manipulation but she is the biggest one of all.
She is a fraud and hypocrite. The ones who scream their christianity from the rooftops usually are the biggest hypocrites of them all. On the off chance she does believe all the mumbo jumbo she spews doesn't change the fact of who she is.
It's no wonder no man wants anything to do with that woman. If she would get off her high horse for a minute, realize no one is perfect and she doesn't have the right to control and censor and decide what any prospective mate should think and/or feel she might have a better chance of finding a mate unless of course she has no use for men and doesn't want a spouse.
I remember her chastising several of the women for complaining about their dates and/or relationships like she knows everything. Of course she does, she thinks she's perfect. The funny thing about all this is she probably has the least use for men. She hides behind her facade of christianity and supposedly being a good christian woman to protect her from more prying eyes that might discover the truth about the real Fern Horst.
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